It's a lovely idea to bring friends and family together towards the end of a pregnancy and give the mum a nice party where the focus is on her before it's all about the baby. I found it was nice to have things to look forward to in the last trimester that aren't all due date, due date, due date. For that reason, I also think it's best to tell the mum-to-be before hand rather than throwing a suprise shower.
Personally, I don't love it when the main focus is on gifts and prefer to buy a gift once the baby is born. My biggest reason is that it's really lovely to receive gifts personalised to the baby, gender appropriate, having their name or initials on the gift and name written in a card.
You spend a lot of time thinking of a name and it makes it more real to see it on things when the baby gets here. Maybe that's just me? If you have a shower, I'm guessing you don't get this so much?
I personally didn't have a baby shower, I threw one for K though. There are a lot of baby showers and due dates coming up in the next couple of months amongst our friends so I've put together some of the best gifts we either received or given and some we just really like.
1. Personalised blanket £29.99 Hippins These are FANTASTIC. I put mine through the washing machine so many times. You can get lots of variations of colours. George had oatmeal with light blue lettering. This was by far my favourite present. It was the perfect size for using in the buggy and car seat.
2. Marionnette Cushions £30 Ferm Living
3. Storage Bags £20 coxandcox
4. Personalised Name Bunting £20, Home & Love on Folksy
5. Mary Jane socks by Trumpette set of 6 £16.95 (other designs and boy versions available)
Fingerprint guest books have started getting more popular for weddings but I think they make a brilliant extra at a baby shower. This is the setup photo from MODG's baby shower. {Possibly the funniest blogger on the internet by the way.}

If you fancy making your own I found some free Printables - Click the image to go to the download page.
Choose pretty ink pads that match the nursery for a lovely piece of original, meanigful art. You could save the print until the baby is born, add their name and birth date and give to the new parents as a framed gift. I also very much like the idea of adding names to the leaves:
Custom made tree by Inviting Moments on Etsy £12.00












